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Name: James
Location: Grand Rapids, Michigan, United States
Gender: Male
Interests: Single
I know what I want in life and I know what kind of relationship I want. I want someone that is sweet that I can take care, and will take care of me also. Someone to build a strong relationship with, filled with fun, & excitement, love and passion. I am looking for someone to share my life with and to make me happy, and someone that I can make very happy. The previous relationships that I have had have not been that great except for one, and since I am single, I want to change my relationship status from single to taken. (by you?:-) ). I am serious about a relationship and want it to last. I want someone to fill the blank of "I love you ___________" I'm a great person, that has alot of motivation, respect for other people, love, compassion, and much more. I am very easy and out going. I have a great since of humor and can defiantly keep a conversation. My ideal date could be anything, but a long walk on the beach and talking for hours, is something that I would never pass up. I
Expertise: can get along with anybody basically. I have a good heart and know best. I am not just looking for sex either. I want more than that. If you are someone looking for a one night stand, or a 'hookup', please do not bother me. Otherwise, Email me or IM me. Take care.......
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Yahoo:  GearDeep
AIM:  Starboygr
MSN: Starboygr@hotmail.com
Member Since:
1/19/2004
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| Gay Men should try harder in life they shouldn't just give up. They should talk to each other instead.. They seem to just give up as so many gay people do ...
well what can i say gay people suck ..... they build you up and then just let you fall down hurtting you
STORY of my life
James | | |
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The Impossible Dream
To dream the impossible dream
To fight the unbeatable for
To bear with unbearable sorrow
To run where the brave dare not go
To right the unrightable wrong
To love pure and chaste from afar
To try when your arms are too weary
To reach the unreachable star
This is my quest to follow that star
No matter how hopeless, no matter how far
To fight for the right
Without question or pause
To be willing to march
Into hell for a heavenly cause
And I know if I'll only be true
To this glorious quest
That my heart will lie peaceful and calm
When Im laid to my rest
And the world will be better for this
That one man, scorned and covered with scars
Still strove with his last ounce of courage
To reach the unreachable star
To fight the unbeatable foe
To dream the impossible dream
And the world will be better for this
That one man, scorned and covered with scars
Still strove with his last ounce of courage
To reach with his last ounce of courage
To reach the unreachable star
To fight the unbeatable foe
To dream the impossible dream
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lmao! that's great, James. ....i seriously do think i'd slap my boyfriend if he ever said anything like that during sex. lol! love ya, bud. talk to you later...
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....guess who! ...lol! yeah...i'm crazy. you have no idea what you're getting yourself into, James. but... i love you.  i like the new song, by the way. ..i wonder who could have put in on your site.  /
thank you TigerEyedLily
with love to all my friends
Iam falling in love with TigerEyedLily
LOVE YOU  Erik
My love is with you
James | | |
| If you don't have anything nice to say...
Alright, so before I begin I have to warn you -- I watched High Fidelity approximately three and half times this weekend (yes, I have no life), so basically, the film got me in a real "list-making" mode. This week is going to be entirely devoted to top ten lists (I've done a top ten before, but never a week of lists!). So here goes...
You know how your mother always told you "if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all"? Well, I for one think the bedroom is a good place to apply this simple wisdom... Avert disaster -- if it sounds questionable in your head, it probably is stupid, so don't say it. Don't be foolish.
I shake my head in disbelief at some of these... Here it is...
*The Top Ten Worst Things Ever Said To Me In Bed"
(in no special order)
1. "Could you be quiet? I'm trying to concentrate..."
Alright, so this one (for you avid X readers out there) is a carry-over from my experience with the man I call "the Zen Master." Well, at least it worked. I was definitely speechless...
2. "There is no escape."
At what point is it "cool" to drop a line like this. And it wasn't in some quasi-kinky S&M tone. Oh no, it was definitely a cheesy, macho-istic Arnold-like tone. I made some joke about the stereotype that Italians have incredible stamina, and his response? -- "Oh yes, it's true. You're gonna be here for a long time. There is no escape." On a side note, he wasn't kidding. Longest sex of my life -- four hours.
3. "I'll LET you suck my dick."
Wow. Let's just pause for a moment... Wow.
As if it wouldn't be tasteless enough in the form of a question ("will you suck my dick?"), no, he had to say he'd "let" me as if it's some courtesy you extend to dinner guests like an hors d'ouerve tray. I desperately wanted to reply back in a very mocking tone, "Really! You'll let me! Oh goody! My dream come true!" What a dumbass...
4. "So, does it taste good?"
By "it" he was definitely referring to the fine delicacy (a part of this complete breakfast!) of man juice. Unlike in other similar situations, I did reply in an honest tone declaring, "Are you serious? If it tasted 'good' people would bottle it up and sell it for a profit." Seriously! That is just an awful question. Regardless of if you think cum doesn't necessarily taste BAD, it sure as fuck does not taste good. Point made.
5. "I've always fantasized about urination."
Okay, now I know it's not right to shoot down someone's honest, all-time fantasy, but I'm sorry -- NO. He asked me my ultimate fantasy (which was a long, elaborate, and in-depth answer we won't go into), so I felt obligated to ask him the same question. And that was his response. Startled, I asked, "So you want me to PISS on you?" And he replied, "Well, I was thinking it could be mutual."
Sick!
6. "So, which side of the bed is your mom's?"
Alright, I've only had sex in my parents' bed once. I know, I know, it's as cliche as sex on prom night, but I did it. This comment was dropped during a little foreplay. Let's just say if there was some tangible "kill switch" in bed that instantly kills the mood, this comment hit the switch dead on. Why would you ask me that? So of course my mind instantly flies to other places relating to my parents in bed, and it was quite frankly too much.
7. "Man, someday I know I'm going to see you on a billboard. Goddamn... You are a TEN."
I'm a modest person to begin with when it comes to compliments, but when someone showers you with excessive, over-the-top flattery AND you're in bed, that can be kind of, well, creepy. I do not have the luxury of being able to convey the tone of his voice over the computer, but I can assure you that he said this to me in a most disgusting lovesick puppy tone. I was frightened to say the least.
8. "I lie awake some nights and think about what you did to me with your mouth."
I really don't have much more to comment on with this one. It's a strange sociological phenomenon, but basically, regardless of the tone or how one may try to phrase it in a less vulgar way, anytime a man talks about receiving oral sex it just always sounds crude. Am I right? Think about it... This comment really sickened me. Plus there was no additional comment on the overall sexual experience -- no, just the oral. Figures...
9. "No, no you don't! We're not stopping till you come little missy!"
First of all, unless we're playing some "virginal" role play game, don't talk to me like I'm a child in bed. So my friend K (hope you're reading this K -- real charmer, thanks a buttload!) sets me up with this guy who sucks in bed. Sucks but is extremely persistent (a very bad combination). And for once in my life, I desperately wanted to NOT be eaten out. Anything but that! He had already had his inevitable "release" while I, of course, was left with nothing. So he tried to get me there, and I could see it just wasn't going to happen. And I must clarify that it is against my personal morals to "fake it" -- I just don't. I may be very vocal in bed, but I won't fake an orgasm. So I just politely but decidedly said, "Okay, that's enough." To which he delivered this stunning reply you see above. So there you have it, the first (and only) time I've ever had to fake it. It's definitely not something I'm proud of...
10. "You have a really nice body, but I've gotta be honest, you're a little top heavy."
Now hear this men (and I could say women too, but any bisexual or homosexual female would not be this dumb): never, NEVER insult a woman's body in bed. No matter what the circumstance or if you view it as "constructive criticism" -- DON'T DO IT. So the einstein that dropped this line on me was also the absolute worst lover I have ever, ever experienced. And the memorable soundbites only put the icing on the cake. After he said this to me, I asked him, "So... you're saying my boobs are too big?" To which he replied most casually, "Well, I prefer them a little smaller." I can assure you that that night was the closest I have ever been to socking a dood straight in the numbers (which is very much against my morals, but I was DAMN CLOSE). And for the record, 34C... What?!
So folks, be advised: sex is not a dress rehearsal (to copy the quote that says the same thing about life), but do be mindful to think out some of these things in the few moments before you let them slip off the tongue.
Silence is golden... X | | |
| Well, I am not sure what to say. here go's.....I am fine ..I ment a guy this weekend ( TOM )throught a X-roomie. My X-roomie Rick and his new roomie Tom and I hung out this weekend. I also went to this Nudest Party this weekend with some friends . O BOY !!!!!............... that was something different.. I was suppose to get naked but I couldnt.. I sat with a towel around me most of the night . I think I am also going to get a P.A. soon
I am thinking seriosly about selling my Hybrad car.. my Car is a 2004.. I am looking at a new car ; which is a 2006 VW ..Jetta. ...Well i will know more in a month or sooooo. I am stilll lookking for work . I havent seen my 2 roomies in 2 weeks.. so ya weard i guess.
I would like to thank all of you for supporting me and knowing you are there for me as i been having a hard time with my life and this gay basher and all . I see he still is saying things about me and other gay people. I learned that I am a Bigger man then he is ... so I am going to ask god to forgive him as I have.
With Love
James | | |
| The last time we let the church run our society....people were hung and burned at the stake"....yeah guys, lets all take comfort in that! I really like alot of your comments, you have some great friends. Go to www.christiangay.com Posted By ....MBailey_Broadway_LiveAid
dear james,
i hate you
love, nick
p.s. all these comments im recieving are funny, tell your fags thanks for the laugh
p.p.s. you say "fuck the government"... is your sorry ass not living off of unemployment, which i believe comes from the government... hmm that doesnt make much sense... without this government to protect you, people like you (aka fags) would not be around, you would be shot...have a shitty day!!!
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